Bev Bos on Conflict Resolution

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Conflict Resoltuion by Bev Bos

“The most important thing to remember about discipline for young children is that it needs to be kind, tender and humane. And so often it is not. Why are adults so afraid of being kind when disciplining? I think there are lots of reasons: one reason stems from how we were disciplined as children. In a tense moment we often go back to how we were raised even if we resented how we were treated. Fear, also, keeps us from being kind and tender because we are so afraid that our child will become a rude, hurtful, out of control adult. Sometimes we just don’t know a better way.”

Read the full article.

Cardboard Gingerbread House

Cardboard Gingerbread HouseChristmas break is just around the corner and fun, festive crafts are a great way to make memories and keep the kids busy. A cardboard gingerbread house can easily be made with all kinds of things you have just laying around the house. The best part is that you’ll have a treasure that you can bring out and enjoy year after year.

What You’ll Need

  • Cardboard box (cereal boxes work great)
  • Scissors
  • Glue or Tape
  • Gingerbread House Template

Basic Instructions

  • There are many gingerbread house templates available for free online. Find your favorite template and cut the shapes out of the cardboard.
  • Glue the house together and allow to dry.
  • Decorate your gingerbread house. Things that work well for decorating: Markers, stickers, construction paper, glitter, beads, poms, chenille craft stems.

Paper Plate Turkeys

Paper Plate Turkey

Paper Plate TurkeyLooking for a simple Thanksgiving activity to do with your little one to celebrate Thanksgiving? How about a paper plate turkey?

What You’ll Need

  • Paper plate
  •  Construction paper
  • Googly eyes
  • Scissors
  • Glue
  • Tape
  • Paint or markers

Basic Directions

  • Paint the paper plate brown and set aside to dry.
  • Cut feather shapes out of the construction paper. You’ll need 2-3 feathers of each color.
  • Cut a small triangle out of orange construction paper for a beak.
  • Cut a small peanut shape out of red construction paper for a waddle.
  • Cut two feet out of orange construction paper.
  • Tape the feathers onto the back of the paper plate.
  • Glue the eyes, beak, waddle, and feet to the front of the paper plate.

There are many variations you can do with this project. For example, have your child tell you something they are thankful for and write it on each feather of the turkey. You can also add glitter or use things found in nature like leaves to accent your turkey.

This is a fun and easy activity for your little one. Enjoy!

Play is Powerful

Power of PlayYou know how we feel about the Power of Play at In a Child’s Path. An article in the Missourian, says “Play helps your child develop physically, learn about the world, learn to express emotions, develop conversation skills, develop creativity and learn how to be sociable.” It also says, “The lessons children learn through playing are really more profound than anything you could teach them.”

So, how do we embrace this philosophy at In a Child’s Path?

1. We make an effort to be aware of our own feelings and are sensitive to others. When we play, we consider how our actions affect others.
2. The children are in charge of their own activities, seeing tasks through to completion. They can play any number of activities and determine when they have had enough of any activity and when they’d like to move on to the next activity.
3.We encourage self-regulation, controlling oneself. When children play, they learn how to play fairly and interact well with others.

Play is your child’s work, and we’re here to encourage them to play hard.

Read more from the Missourian and learn more about The Power of Play.

Fun with Dyed Pasta

Dyed Pasta

Dyed PastaHas your child come home recently with a necklace made from lovely, bright pasta? That’s because we dyed some for the kids to use to help them practice their stringing, which is great for honing those fine motor skills. But, lest you think the only thing they can do with beautifully died pasta is put it on a string, here are some other ideas for fun pasta crafts.

For all of these crafts, you’ll want some nicely died pasta. For an excellent tutorial, check out this one by Julie Finn at Crafting a Green World.

Jewelry

Jewelry is the old pasta stand by, but you can do some pretty great things with the number of types of pasta you can find. Wagon wheels glued together can make really pretty tiaras when glued to a plain plastic headband, and bow ties make great center pendants on bracelets and necklaces. All you need is pasta and string! You can even decorate hair clips by gluing the pasta to plain barrettes. And, you can find some fun pastas like peace signs (made by Annie’s Organics – check the natural food section at Fred Meyer).

Transportation

Lasagna noodles make great bases for train cars, and rigatoni makes some pretty cool lumber to tote in those train cars. You can of, course, use wagon wheels for tires on all sorts of vehicles. If you want some inspiration, this pasta train from Parents is pretty cool.

Art

Gluing pasta on poster board or card stock is a great way for kids to create their own designs. And, you can always let them paint the pasta after it’s on the paper, instead of dying it ahead of time. Also, if your little one is learning their ABCs, alphabet pasta can be a fun way to reinforce those letters.

Garland

Just like stringing cranberries for tree garland, you can string pasta for pretty garlands to hang on your Christmas tree or around the house anywhere.

Picture Frames

Pasta can add fun texture to a picture frame. Glue pieces of pasta on a basic frame and paint over them, or used the dyed pasta for a different look.

If you’re the type that prefers to learn by watching, Parents has a video about pasta crafts with some other fun ideas too.

No matter which activity you do with pasta, your child is sure to love it!

Building Skills – Clear Easel Painting

Paint Brushes

Paint BrushesClear easel painting is a great activity to do with your child to help them develop a range of skills.

Language Skills
A discussion of colors, shapes, and objects can be described by you and your child

Emotional Skills
Children express their emotions through paint

Cognitive Skills
Paint of clear plastic, wipe it off. Children can see through the easel.

Fine Motor Skills
Small details of painting with a small brush

Large Motor Skills
Large arm movements reaching high above the head

When you’re looking for an excellent activity to do with your child, consider clear easel painting.

Apples, Apples, Apples

Apples

Apples for tastingThis week we learned a lot about apples! We tasted tart, sweet, crisp, sour and four or five great colors. We also added our neighbor Bill’s large Korean pears to see how pears and apples compare. It was fun to find Korea on the world map. The children also looked at the tags on the apples and we found Washington on the map too.

We used our apple peeler and plastic knives to bake apples into an empty pumpkin for a tasty treat. We also made the best applesauce ever! The children were all quite happy each time we added it to the lunch menu.

Building Skills – Crayon Melt

Crayons

CrayonsIf you’re looking for fun activities for you to do with your kids, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got a ton of good ideas for building skills in your child. One great craft to do with your children is crayon melts.

Cognitive Skills
The heat causes the solids to transform into liquid.

Fine Motor Skills
Breaking small pieces of crayon with fingers

Sensory Skills

  • Warmth of the hot plate
  • Crayons feel silky and smooth
  • Wax is sticky
  • Noticeable smell when the wax melts

Language Skills
Discuss the changes of a solid to a liquid

Cooperative Skills

  • Share one hot pan
  • Take urns
  • Share space
  • Watch each other

Your child can learn a number of excellent skills by doing crayon melts.

Building Skills – Art Lathe

Art Lathe

If you’re looking for an excellent way to build skills in your child, consider an art lathe.

Art Lathe
Social/Language Skills

  • Watching and interacting with each other
  • Children share their excitement and emotions verbally

Cognitive Skills

  • Seeing the patterns and designs gives children an opportunity for matching and counting
  • Children learn cause and effect placing the paint on the spinning lathe, then watch the design that it makes
  • Dropping paint causes a unique design to take shape

Fine Motor Skills
Children use the pincer grasp when holding the pen, pencil, or small paint

Cooperative Skills

  • Share the art lathe
  • Take turns
  • Watch and learn from each other

Building Skills – Paper Mache

Paper Mache

Paper MachePaper mache is yet another excellent activity you can do with your child. Paper Mache can teach your child a number of skills.

Large Motor Skills

  • Tearing paper
  • Stirring glue
  • Applying paper to base

Social Skills
Children talk about the progress of the sculpture, taking pride in their work through conversations

Emotional Skills
The labors that such a project take will connect child with finished project

Cooperative Skills
Children share materials. This is a group effort where children construct together.

Language Skills
Books and illustrations about final outcome promote language.

Sensory Skills
The texture of the glue, cold, wet, sticky. The roughness of the dry paper.

Cognitive Skills
The process of paper mache: The glue changes from a liquid to a solid state.

Paper Mache is a great way to work with your child on completing an interesting project.